With what is happening to the institution
of marriage and relationship, one wonders if some people really understand what
they are actually going into before venturing into it, or they are just in it
because others are in it and want to show off that they too can have one.
What we all understand about two
people going into a relationship is to remain faithfully committed to each
other both in the good and bad times, but in today’s world, that is idea is
being put aside, as different couples do it in their own way, even when it is
repugnant to the primary idea of a relationship.
This is the case between Beatrice
Gibbs and her boyfriend Adam Gillet aged 22 and 27 respectively. The duo have
gone into an agreement where Beatrice is allowed to have multiple partners than
Adam in order to save their relationship.
Adam went into an agreement with
his girlfriend allowing her to have intercourse with as many men as she can
just to keep her in his life, while he is not to remain faithful to her, as she
does not want him to have anything to do with any other girl other than
herself. An agreement which sources said was reached barely a month into their relationship.
They both met on an Oxford pub
crawl in February 2014 and passed that night together, and never met again
until April 2015, and finally began their dating.
However it was later explained by
Beatrice how she had made several efforts to quit the relationship few weeks
after she realised how unfaithful she would be to Adam.
Beatrice told the Sun that "I
didn’t want to hurt him by going behind his back with someone else."
But Adam so loved her that he was
not willing to give up that easily and brought up a novel idea to make their
relationship work.
“He was devastated and suggested
we stay together but I could sleep with other people, as long as I told him who
and when."
Surprisingly, after some kind of
early anxiety, they decided to give it a try, and after about one and half
year, they are still going on well with the special arrangement.
Thus, Beatrice tagged it the "perfect
situation", being able to have a stable relationship and at the same time
have fun on the side.
Unfortunately for Adam he is not
allowed to sleep with other women as he knows his partner wouldn't be happy
about it and it could break them up.
And Beatrice admitted that she
"couldn't handle it" if Adam did the same thing to her, saying she
would "hate it".
But the question being asked is,
does she feel guilty about the deal? Well, no.
Though she accepted the fact that
sometimes she feels a bit bad the morning after sleeping with someone else, but
then things quickly get back to normal after a cuddle and a chat.
"I’m happy for her to enjoy
herself," he said. "I’m not really interested in chasing other women
and I know if I did then Beatrice wouldn’t be happy about it."
Beatrice also said that she
hasn't really shared the arrangement with her family and Adam says some of his
friends think it's odd.
Adam said it "takes the
worry" away about his girlfriend cheating on him, adding: "If I let
her sleep with other people she comes back to me."
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